The transition from home or nursery to school is a huge milestone for young children – and for their families too. Summer holidays provide the perfect opportunity for our Nannies to gently build confidence, independence, and excitement before the first school day arrives.
Why School Preparation Matters
Starting school introduces children to:
New routines
Different adults
Larger groups of children
Increased independence
Structured learning environments
Some children feel excited, while others may feel nervous or overwhelmed. By preparing gradually during the summer, Nannies can help reduce anxiety and create a positive attitude towards school.
Build Independence Through Everyday Tasks
One of the biggest adjustments children face at school is managing simple tasks independently.
Encourage children to practise:
Putting on coats and shoes
Using the toilet independently
Washing hands properly
Opening lunch boxes and drinks bottles
Tidying away toys after play
Carrying their own bag
Turn these into fun daily routines rather than formal lessons. Praise effort and progress to build confidence.
Introduce Simple School Routines
Children thrive on predictability. Gradually introducing a school-style routine over the summer can make the transition smoother.
Try:
Earlier bedtimes a few weeks before school starts
Regular meal and snack times
Quiet reading or activity periods
Morning routines like school days
This helps children adjust naturally without a sudden shock in September.
Encourage Social Skills
School brings new friendships, sharing, teamwork, and communication challenges.
Our Nannies can support social development by encouraging:
Turn-taking games
Group activities
Sharing toys
Listening skills
Saying “please” and “thank you”
Talking about feelings
Role play can also be particularly helpful. Pretend to be teachers, classmates, or lunchtime supervisors so children can practise everyday school situations.
Read Books About Starting School
Stories are a powerful way to help children understand what to expect.
Choose age-appropriate books that explore:
First-day nerves
Making friends
Classroom routines
School adventures
Reading together opens conversations and allows children to ask questions in a safe and relaxed environment.
Some popular titles include:
Starting School by Janet and Allan Ahlberg
Topsy and Tim Start School
Harry and the Dinosaurs Go to School
Develop Early Communication and Listening Skills
Children do not need to be able to read or write before starting school, but strong communication skills are incredibly valuable.
Support development through:
Singing songs and rhymes
Reading daily
Asking open-ended questions
Encouraging storytelling
Playing listening games
Simple conversations throughout the day help expand vocabulary and confidence.
Final Thoughts
Preparing children for school is not about academic pressure or formal learning. It is about nurturing confidence, independence, resilience, and curiosity.
Summer holidays offer valuable time for Nannies to create positive experiences that help children approach school with excitement rather than fear. Small daily activities, encouragement, and emotional support can make the transition smoother for both children and their families.
With patience, reassurance, and plenty of play, Nannies can help children take their first steps into school life feeling happy, capable, and ready to learn.
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